The only way I can describe it is that your orgasm feels like it's starting much deeper inside of you and feels like a combination between cumming and starting to take a piss. It's how they gather semen from animals for artificial insemination. That being said - don't let the porn fool you. One of the things that seems to happen eventually in relationships around here is a date involving a trip to our local Good Vibrations shop. I tend to find it and the surrounding real estate to be quite yummy.
I don't think that's so different from a woman using a strap-on, though. In a situation where a woman is using a strap-on with a male partner, what is the end-result? Okay, this thread has been fascinating but I have a question. Apparently, an elephant's prostate is about the size of a half of a grapefruit. Well, okay, it's only about 12 years or so, but my knees aren't as forgiving today as they were then, so it certainly feels like a long time ago. Oh - forgot to say that I think giving oral on another guy is great fun, it's not all about his pleasure, I love having a cock in my mouth too. I don't think most girls use them. I've never used one although I've used dildos on guys.
Many lesbian porn films feature strap-ons which I do enjoy seeing , but it got me thinking about how I've never actually met a woman who has used a strap-on with a partner of either sex. Now I have heard from several veterinary school students stories of collecting semen and they didn't involve prostate stimulation. Thus, I estimate that of the women I've had sexual contact with, 25% of them use strap on dildos. By her account, it was the best she and her partner had found. Or does the guy masturbate to completion while being peg'ed? On the flipside, these women have never even paused to consider what it would be like to don one.
But that's a pretty small sample to extrapolate anything from. Who's not getting anything out of it? He's a clean freak, too, showers forever and scrubs every inch, and yet I still felt a little oogy. It was about as wild as we've gone. Even if I didn't have any sensation in my dick at all, all those other elements would make fucking someone a hell of a lot of fun. Two out of three times my dates selected strap-on harnesses with a variety of appurtenances they were both kind enough to solicit my input on what they intended to put in.
She's the only person I've known who has told me she's used one. Well, me and my partner and this mad female friend of ours who is another pervert did a few scenes together, and she definitely enjoys strapping one on and using it to give what-for to selected orifices. It can be and often is an orgasmic experience for me. Males can orgasm from prostate stimulation alone. As a guy I can't speak first hand, but I have been told by women of a truly bisexual bent not the Girls Gone Wild exhibitionist variety that the strap-on is a legitimate fantasy of theirs. Fucking someone takes a lot of energy and if you're not getting anything out of it namely lots of pleasureable feeling in your cock and eventually an orgasm I can't see why you'd want to bother. Males can orgasm from prostate stimulation alone.
She was sleeping with the maid at the time. Yes, I realize there will be answers that cover all of the above. Now, if in the case of a strap-on you don't have any desires but your partner does, your decision to participate or not includes being generous, even indulgent. It involves direct physical stimulation of some extremely sensitive parts of both participants' bodies, it involves a tremendous amount of trust between the participants, and the role reversal can be very erotic. So my Honey asks me to buy her one for her birthday. It's interesting that there's a reasonable market for them, and even more interesting that it seems to be largely hetero couples using them to try something new.
In that sense it's similar to giving oral, which doesn't do much for the giver physically but can be a huge turn-on anyway. I've known several women who used strap-ons, though not always lesbians and not always with a female partner. I enjoyed it, but have only done it a few times generally I'd just have a wank whilst being fucked, my easier. The women who do this are total altruists. Nothing to add about strap-ons, as I have my own home-grown equipment, as do my very occasional - : partners. He mentioned he was curious, and I was all for trying something new. I'm going to have to go with actual footage.
Now I have heard from several veterinary school students stories of collecting semen and they didn't involve prostate stimulation. And it can require just as much energy and concentration as fucking, if not more. I mean, just for census purposes, you understand. I find that a much better general approach, to sex and to life, is for you to think about what you'd like, then ask for it. I enjoyed myself very much, partly because though I have no desire to be a man, I really think I would like having a penis.
Interesting, anyone care to confirm with a personal anecdote? Thanks for the enlightening replies, everyone! But I own and use my strap-on on a regular basis, and enjoy the hell out of it. Interesting, anyone care to confirm with a personal anecdote? Wearing a strap on would be redundant and if I want to get fucked I'd rather have the real thing. It seems to be an interesting experience for both partners to say the least, but I'd like to find out more from actual people instead of porn films and the like. We have one, and I've used it once or twice on my husband. I have not heard of males having an orgasm just from prostate stimulation alone.