Men are naturally attracted to happy women. Before I continue this article, though, I have to begin with a disclaimer: it is going to be extremely honest and might come across as offensive. Before you get angry at me and say I am being sexist, let me say this: I am referring to most men and most women, the patterns I have seen. At the moment my anxiety and insecurities are getting the worst out of me. This brings me to my next point. It does not have to be a sexy text; it can be anything, as long as it has the vibe behind it of you not expecting anything from him but simply wanting to make him feel good and happy.
Neediness is an internal mindset and not being needy is not something that you can fake. But one thing I will never get used to is the ghosting thing. This will make him more likely to want to respond. I saw he read the text but has not replied yet. The reason is because your focus is on giving him something rather than expecting him to give you something. I hope the writer of this article will see this. I feel I do most of this already and by that I mean keep things light and positive.
This is why focusing on the quality of the time you spend with him is much more important when it comes to fixing your situation than trying to get him to text back. With that said, I am still going to give you some general tips and tricks to consider when it comes to texting him that might make him more likely to text back. This is a mindset that will sabotage your relationship with any man more than you can even imagine. If you have fun together and have a good rapport, this is what will create a good relationship or if you are not in a relationship, it will make him want to spend more time with you. I am not saying that men do not wonder why a woman is not texting back; this is not true at all. Texting is not necessarily a good way to judge whether your relationship is on track and to figure out whether his feelings for you run deep.
This issue of men and texting is a topic that so many women write to me about… and there are some reasons for this. Feeling a bit depressed as he has not acknowledged my bad day or sent me text saying hope I am okay. Afterward, I am going to explain some mindset shifts that will make him more likely to text back, give your relationship the best chance of succeeding and then finally give you specific tips and tricks that will increase the chance of him texting you back. Anyways I wrote him few lines explaining what happened to me. .
You might be in a situation with a man who used to text you back right away before, but as time has gone by, things seemed to have changed. This ties into what I mentioned in the beginning… how men and women have a fundamental difference in how they view texting. He is an archeologist and does private culture and history tours and at times lecturing. The more he ignores you, the less confident you feel in the future of your relationship or whatever it is you have with him. In the past he did when I hurt my shoulder. By looking at how much of his time he gives you and how much of his true self he shows you.
If you come from this place, he will be much more inclined to reply. This is not me saying you are a bad person for feeling this way, it is very common. Avoiding that is making it easier on no one other than the person doing the ghosting. So realize that he might not even know that you are upset by his texting habits. I am not saying you want him to text you all day; but one common reason why a man might not respond is because they feel it will create an expectation that he has to reply all day in a constant conversation. Watch The Video: How to Get a Guy to Text You Back How do you figure out whether he has strong feelings for you? I am a bit concerned to be seem like needy or may be scared him off.
Focus on The Quality of Time You Spend With Him And Less on Texting What you can do to make your relationship have the highest chance of succeeding, your best bet is to focus on the quality of the time you spend with him and making it as good as possible. We have been messaging in WhatsApp for the last 2,5 months on regular basis… exchanging photographs, talking about daily life etc. It probably goes both ways a little. He was fun to be around and exchanged numbers before I left. . . .
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